Category: Family and Friends

  • Mammoth Ski Trip

    Mammoth Ski Trip

    After experiencing a ski-in-ski-out place, it’s hard to go back staying at a regular rental. We found a wonderful condo just up the slope from Eagle Lodge at Mammoth. Just steps outside of our front door, we can ski down to the lift and be up on the slopes in no time. Mid-day, we simply turn right and ski back to our door. It was a great trip, socializing with friends and enjoying the mountain with the kids.

  • Cottonwood Lakes

    Cottonwood Lakes

    The kids are getting more and more trail time. Two years ago, we did one uphill mile each day, with two miles hiking out. Last year, we did two miles with a lot of elevation gain. Now, we’re going to tackle more than five miles. The last week has been all about getting ready, both physically and mentally. Daphney and Jayden have been gearing up with backpacks loaded down with books, tackling hilly laps to build their endurance.

    Our journey begins with an easy drive up to Horseshoe Meadow, where we fuel up with a simple dinner in the car. The backpacker’s campground is just half full—perfect for a quick overnight before the big hike.

    Early in the morning, we hike up the trail, which starts out flat. It leads us into a verdant meadow near a wilderness school, and here, we try to fly fish. Kevin and Barry hook some golden trout, but I find them to be very picky.

    As we push past the meadow, the trail climbs steadily into the high basin. The first Cottonwood Lake reveals itself—a sparkling sheet of water rimmed by brilliant green. The sun backlights the meadow grass, turning it into a glowing, undulating wave. We take a breather, soaking it all in before trudging through the marsh toward the next lake.

    Daphney and Jayden are exhausted. This is the longest they have hiked in one day. We wait among some boulders as Kevin and Nico and Barry march ahead to scout for a campsite.

    We settle on a broad field of grass and scattered rocks, with Mount Langley towering over Cottonwood Lake #3. Dinner is farro lentil soup, perfect for warming up as the cold sets in.

    After dark, the Milky Way emerges, stretching diagonally across the southern sky like a band of jewels, its center clearly recognizable.

    We hang out around camp in the morning. After breakfast, we do laundry. The kids run around and play in the wide-open field. They discover the joy of wading in the stream, splashing around until lunchtime. Beef-flavored noodle soup fuels us for an afternoon trek to the higher Cottonwood Lakes, where we sightsee and fish. Old Army Pass looks daunting, but we meet a few groups descending that trail from Mt. Langley.

    Overnight, the incessant wind gives way to calm, leaving the lake as still as glass. In the early morning, Mt. Langley stands tall against a cloudless, brilliant blue sky.

    After a leisurely breakfast, the hike out is smooth and easy. All that prep and training—every mile, every climb—has paid off. The kids are already asking for the next adventure.

  • Hanfu with Peach Blossoms

    Hanfu with Peach Blossoms

    黃馨搖風魚滿載
    紅桃沐雨牛耕春

    It’s the new year–Year of the Ox. The water reflects peach blossoms as they spray skyward. Winter jasmine drapes into the water. Chinese narcissus breathes fragrance into the garden. Fish are becoming less bashful. We’re celebrating springtime by donning on hanfu for a stroll by the pond.

  • Daphney’s Fourth Birthday

    Daphney’s Fourth Birthday

    Daphney gets an extended celebration of her fourth birthday, with events spanning the entire week and both weekends. The coronavirus shelter-at-home order gives us plenty of excuses to make this birthday extra memorable.

    We surprise her with the special gift book, Fables of Ancient China, compiled just for her. And Auntie Alice surprises her with a garden cake, perfectly themed to match her own venture into vegetable and flower gardening.

  • Jayden’s Dedication Weekend

    Jayden’s Dedication Weekend

    We are so blessed to have Jayden dedicated by Pastor Shawna Campbell at the University Church this weekend.

  • Family Portrait in Hanfu

    Family Portrait in Hanfu

    Yan ordered hanfu from China, but we couldn’t find one that fits Jayden. I used a pattern I found online to make one that fits him.

  • Jayden’s First Birthday Party

    Jayden’s First Birthday Party

    We’re all gathered at Fairmount Park in Riverside. The theme is fishing! There are fishing poles, nets, and games. We have fish tacos, and Auntie Alice and Auntie Susan made tower of cupcakes. Except for the Santa Ana winds at the end of the party, it was a perfect day to celebrate!

  • Jayden Turns One

    Jayden Turns One

    Today, our baby Jayden turns one! We’ve been so blessed by the smiles, giggles, laughter, and cuteness. And in this one year, we’ve done so much together. We first camped at Joshua Tree. Then, we celebrated the first 100 days. Soon, Chinese New Year came around. Altogether, we spent six nights camping and one night in a remote backcountry hut. The first major road trip took us along the coast from California, through Oregon, and into Washington. The second circled around Iceland. What an adventurous year!

    For the first birthday present, we wrote and illustrated this board book. Zhan He Catches Fish—a story penned in the 5th century BC—is fitting for the birthday party’s fishing theme.

    詹何以獨繭絲為綸, 芒針為鉤, 荊筱為竿, 剖粒為餌, 引盈車之魚於百仞之淵, 汩流之中, 綸不絕, 鉤不伸, 竿不撓. 楚王聞而異之, 召問其故. 詹何曰:“曾聞先大夫之言, ‘蒲且子之弋也, 弱弓纖繳, 乘風振之, 連雙鶬於雲際, 用心專, 動手均也.’ 臣因其事, 放而學釣, 五年始盡其道. 當臣之臨河持竿, 心無雜慮, 惟魚之念, 投綸沉鉤, 手無輕重, 物莫能亂. 魚見臣之鉤餌, 猶塵埃聚沫, 吞之不疑. 所以能以弱制強, 以輕致重也. 大王治國誠能若此, 則天下可運於一握, 將亦奚事哉?” 楚王曰:“善. ”
    Zhān Hé used a single strand of silk thread for line, pointed needles for hooks, slender bamboo for a rod, and split rice grains for lure. He managed to catch cartloads of fish from the depths and the rushing rapids— the line not breaking, the hooks not stretched, and the rod unyielded.
    The King of Chu heard about this and thought it was extraordinary. He summoned Zhān Hé to ask him how he does it.
    Zhān Hé said, “I heard my late father recount: ‘When the archer Pú Qiězǐ shot, he used a weak bow fitted with a thin string. Shooting with the wind, he hit two orioles in the clouds because of his complete concentration and precise handling.’ I followed his method and learned to fish, taking five years to perfect my technique. When I come to the riverbank to fish, I mind nothing else other than fishing. Casting the line and setting the hook, my hands are neither heavy nor light, and my mind is without distraction.To the fish, my hook and lure are like dust and froth. They swallow unsuspectingly. Therefore, from weakness comes strength, and lightness overtakes the heavy. When governing, all under heaven can be ruled with one hand. Is there anything that is not possible?”
    The King of Chu replied, “Well said.”